Please find something better to do with your time than doing Google searches about your friends!
Shouldn’t you have full trust in them? Why not just ask them instead of sneaking around trying to find stuff out.

Have a nice search and gossip-free day!

God bless

Mary

PS.  I can also see who are and where you are from on my Google stats tracking. The web is not as anonymous as you think!

FEBRUARY 2009 – WE MET!

(Taken from an email to a friend just after we met!).

Well I finally met Harman!!! he arrived in Australia on Tuesday the 10th, and I travelled to the city on that day and waited for him to arrive at his college. He finally got there around 7pm, and my first sight of him was him walking/running down the steep driveway to the gate of the college where I was waiting.

It was a really amazing and lovely yet overwhelming moment when we met. He gave me a quick hug and we started walking really fast trying to find some dinner before I had to go to my grandparents at 8pm.

My first thoughts when I saw him for ‘real’ were.. “omg he is sooo handsome!, oh wow he isn’t fat like he said he was, and wow, he smiles a lot, and wow, is this really true?”. I think I tend to expect things to be worse than they turn out, so I got a real big shock when (to me) Harman seemed like he had walked out of a bollywood movie .

We spent a few hours together over the next 3 days, in between Harman’s uni orientation courses, and then he came on the bus home to stay over with my family for Friday and Saturday night. So I got to show him our beach, he got to meet the family – Little Brett Lee loved him so much he cried when he said goodbye to him – and we got to have fun together.

So, all in all, it was amazing. 3 years was so worth the wait to meet someone I truly love. When I met Harman, there was something I just knew was right, something that I’ve never felt before when other guys have told me I they love me, which has always made me think that ‘true’ love would be different, and I think I was right!

Over the next few days I’ll be posting more of the highlights of our year!

Before the meeting went ahead I was feeling quite nervous – what will it be like meeting Didi? I hope she likes me, I hope I like her! will it be terribly awkward? or will it go ok?  As soon as I saw Harman all those thoughts melted away, Didi introduced herself and I introduced my sisters to her and Harman Veerji and we all ran into Starbucks to escape from the pouring rain. I loved Didi from the moment I saw her, she was so lovely and sweet. As we chatted we found out that we had many things in common: we both feel extremely cold, even in summer, we both think Americans are very loud , we love adding extra spice to our food, we think sarees are beautiful, we think Harman is a baby (just kidding ), we both looooove Shahrukh    and so it went on.  Harman Veerji was equally as nice, and did such a lovely job making everyone feel at home and comfortable.   After Starbucks, we walked through Sydney to go to an Indian Restaurant for Dinner – and surprise, it was the very same restaurant the me, Clare and Celine love that is in Sydney!! after much debate about dinner, we decided on palak paneer, chicken tikka masala, chicken jalfrazi, dal makhani, aloo paratha and rotis..  we had soooo much food that we could barely make a dent in it!  Harman Veerji insisted that we eat some sweets, so we had some gulab jamuns and rasgoola.

Harman walked us back to our hotel, and then we sat together chatting for about 20mins waiting for Didi and Harman Veerji to come by to pick him up. We were both overjoyed that the first meeting with his family had gone so well.  It’s amazing, just one year ago anything like this seemed so distant and far to us. Finally our dreams are starting to come true.

Mary just took the Who is your Soulmate? quiz and got the result: The Dorky Type..

The Dorky Type: His Height: 3 inches taller

His Build: a bit chubby

His Job: engineer

Where you’ll meet him: college!

His kiss: He was nervous but you must admit,it was really romantic

Will you have kids: yah

Wow. that’s the first time I’ve ever got amazed at how accurate a stupid quiz result could be.  Well, apart from the ‘dorky part’ he’s not that at all . Oh, and the ‘first kiss part’ is wrong too. Saving that for marriage

Happy Birthday!!!

This is the third birthday that I’ve been able to wish Harman on. The first time we had only been friend for about 1 month, and I was going to wish you a ‘Happy Birthday’ on Orkut, but upon seeing the hundreds of friends who had already scrapped you with their wishes, I almost didn’t bother.. I thought.. he won’t even notice my wishes amongst all of these other ones, and plus, he seems so popular he probably doesn’t even remember who I am.   In the end, I DID wish him a very happy 23rd birthday.. and the rest is history

Harman’s next 2 birthdays came and went with us both wishing so, so, much that one year we could actually be together to celebrate! Well finally we are in the same country and same state as each other.. but not the same city. We decided that is would be most sensible if we didn’t meet up on Harman’s actual birthday due to uni classes meaning we would only see each other for about 3hrs and I would travel 5hrs (but I wouldn’t have minded.. I would travel 5hrs just to spend 20min with Harman ). Instead, I’m going to visit Harman on Saturday.. and we have the entire day until 5pm to have fun!! I can’t wait!!

Did you know that?

Every time you walk into a room I can’t wait to see you smile at me..

Travelling for 3 hours seems like travelling for 30 minutes when you are with me..

Listening to you talk makes me happy..  

Talking with you makes me laugh… )

Thinking about you makes me dream…

main tainu pyar kardi han.

Love,

Mary

Mary + Harman

Well can you believe it? Harman and I are going to meet very soon! in around 25 days! (we’ll know the exact day once he has his flight date and time confirmed).  He is coming to Perth to study, which means we’ll soon be only 2.5 hours away from each other.

To pass the time until we meet, and to remind us of all the lovely things that we’ve been unable to do together so far, we’re both going to add to this ‘dreams’ list until the day we meet.

1)  Mary:  We can read the ‘Our Love Story’ card together, which Harman gifted me on my birthday.

2)  Harman:  We’ll buy ‘Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi’ and watch it together.

3) Harman:  I can show you all the scrapbook entries that i got at my farewell.

4)  Harman:  I can show you all the birthday cards/gifts that i got from my friends.

7) Mary:   Sit together holding hands.

9) Mary:   I can make you eat Australian foods like Vegemite, Pavlova, Lamingtons, and Kangaroo!

10) Harman:  We can watch the Hollywood movies ‘50 First dates‘ and ‘Enchanted‘ together.

11) Harman: We can listen to the songs ‘Wo pehli baar‘ and ‘Suno na‘ while taking a stroll on the Bunbury beach.

12) Mary:  Play beach cricket and ‘flags’ on the sand at Koombana Bay.

20) Harman: Take Mary for a ride along the Swan river on my bike